Les gars, vous vous trompez quelque part. Vous croyez que pardonner est à propos de l'autre.

Mais pardonner est à propos de soi.

Pardonner is about moving on and liberating, not letting the others hold any kind of grips on you. You see?

You don't have to punish (yes, some do think it is their job), you don't have to not say either (on the contrary, you must say exactly what you expect from life and from people, because if you don't how could they possibly know?), and believe me or not, you do not have to forgive.

Yeh...weird hey?

Yet.

Let me tell you a little secret (please share my secret):

Forgiving is about growing up.

It's about self-growth.

Allowing to see what happened as something from... yesterday - not today.

And today is YOUR today- whether others want it or not.     ¤ (Guess what? They don't have their say here. I know it might drive them crazy, but the sooner you're somewhere else, the less you might feel their being unhappy: they don't have a grip on you. Especially if you are "somewhere else", in your now, wondering about your future).

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